Meet Ben Affleck’s first love, Cheyenne Rothman, whom he met at skinny-dipping camp and dated longer than either of his romances with JLo

Meet Ben Affleck’s first love, Cheyenne Rothman, whom he met at skinny-dipping camp and dated longer than either of his romances with JLo.

She was the fresh-faced high school volleyball star who dated Ben Affleck for seven years before breaking up with him because his meteoric rise to stardom became too much for her.

While Affleck, 51, is in the heart of allegations that his two-year marriage to famous singer Jennifer Lopez is nearly ended, DailyMail.com can reveal that his ex-girlfriend Cheyenne Rothman’s life could not be any different.

Rothman, 52, who is now a happily married mother of three, dated the actor from 1990 to 1997 – longer than either of his romances with Lopez, also 52 – but left him and the Hollywood drama for a tranquil life in Alameda, California.

Exclusive DailyMail.com images show how her life now focuses on her family, which includes her software engineer husband Lauren Haven, 50, and their three teenage sons.

Rothman, who hasn’t been spotted since a high-profile red carpet appearance with Affleck at the March 1997 premiere of Chasing Amy, now spends her days running errands in the Bay Area and walking her dog.

Her social media pages are either hidden or do not contain any images of her, but she is happy to express her progressive political beliefs, such as her adoration for Vermont Senator Bernie Sanders on Facebook.